I'm 31, in a steady relationship with a man I hope to marry one day, but in all honesty I hadn't ever spent much time thinking about my wedding day until recently. Now I know that if we do get married I only want a small wedding. I don't want a big church wedding and a hotel reception as I feel they're all the same. I'd like to get married and then have a delicious meal in a good restaurant and then maybe head somewhere else for dancing or home for a party. Another thing I wouldn't mind doing is getting married in a park in the evening - early summer with lots of beautiful flowers around us and tons of candles lighting the way (but then again, I live in cold, rainy Ireland so that's probably only a pipedream). Something different to the usual, typical wedding so many of us have to go to. I'll have to wait to see if he ever asks me though, before I start planning it properly.