I would be upset at first too. When you look at the situation from another viewpoint you could feel flattered that she respects your ideas and while she is in a planning frenzy she is following you lead. While her date is before yours, your close friends know how long you've had yours planned. You will have different music, decorations, flowers, favors and many guests. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Think of it as an opportunity to go and she how her wedding goes and note anything you want to change before your big day!


Lirpa, this from someone who doesn't capitalize or punctuate? Nice.