...Im only 19? I dont even have a boyfriend and I have my own wedding all planned out. Like the dress, bridesmaid, who I'd invite, where it is, what month, seriously everything planned out. I am seeing a guy but we arent too serious, so I dont know why I keep thinking of me having a wedding? Its weird, I know all little girls dream about their wedding day but I have mine planned out like I am getting married tomorrow and Im not even in a relationship! I have every little thing planned out, its so weird. Why am I thinking this way? And I have my future children names picked out! I know a lot of my friend are pregnant, or already have children, and a few of them are engaged, but why am I thinking like this? Most people dont have every detail of their weddings planned out before they even get a ring or a boyfriend. Someone explain this to me. Could it be a sign that Im going to marry this guy Im seeing? I dont know, I'm confused! Helppppppppp.

funny, i had a dream guy in mind to marry but not the wedding, not the kids names.

good luck
dont know that its a sign for you but careful to add your future man's plans to yours and think about rearranging them if necessary...i mean....be flexible

Most girls have their wedding dreamed out and planned out when they are only little girls. It is NOT a sign that you are going to marry the guy you are seeing, it just shows that you have the imagination to plan everything out. it also shows how interested you are in these things and what kind of priority they have in your life.

Definitely weird, you are only 19.
Why don't you focus yourself with your studies instead. Enjoy your youth, your life. Plan your studies and what course and direction you should follow and be somebody someday. Secure your future. Guys and married life can wait, but your studies must come first. You are far far better dropping everything else and focus yourself with your studies.
Wake-up, you are having a bad dream.

Good luck to you.

That's pretty normal, especially for girls.

In fact, in my interpersonal communication studies class in college freshman year the teacher asked how many girls had dumped a guy after 5 or 6 dates because she didn't think he would make a very good father or husband and the vast majority raised their hands.

I think it's a sign of immaturity. Are you marrying yourself? Or is there a missing person in this equation who has not yet given their opinion as to who, what, when & how his marraige day or what his childrens names will be?
I think you need to wait a little before you go about making plans for someone you haven't met yet.
Remember it takes two to be married.

Nope its not weird ..............Most girls dream of their wedding day..........I had all mine planned out too.

But once I got to the 'real' planning, I changed my mind on EVERYTHING!

Personally I think it's weird. Mind you I never dreamed of it as a girl, I was too busy living.
I have never understood why females think the whole experience is about them. I always thought it was about 2 people professing their love before family, friends and God (in most cases). I was of the impression that the vows took precedence over the gown, bridesmaids dresses, flowers etc.
I think you are in love with the idea of getting married but have given the institution of marriage very little thought. I think you should stop the daydreaming and just get on with life and see how things play out.

A lot of women plan, I think those are the women who will get a man that pleases them.

im 14.
im the same
hahahha!!
i dont have a boyfriend.
so i don think its a big deal.